“Awesome” was the theme of tonight’s meeting. Indeed we had an awesome gathering with four visitors and our regular members.
Alicia, who was just inducted as a member, delivered her first Toast about “awesome”.
Ross taught us a very special Word of the Night “wabi sabi”, which means imperfection in Japanese.
During the Table Topics session, every participant was given a statement, and asked talk about why they agree with the statement in the first half of their statement, and why they disagree in the second half of their speech. Our six speakers all did interesting and inspiring short speeches within 1:30 minutes. Here were some of the questions:
Happiness comes from within
It’s better to be born as a man
You can achieve anything you want if you put your mind to it
In the second half of the meeting, we had three speakers from various levels in Pathways.
“Don’t talk. Just do it”. William, the speaker, represented the club in the area contest and won the first place of humorous speech few weeks ago. He practised his speech in the meeting and gathered valuable feedback from his peers and visitors which hopefully would help him make further improvement in the next round of the contest.
“Risk, Reward and Regret”. Chris, the speaker, did a spontaneous speech, but full of wisdom and humour. At the end of the speech, we all self-tested our maths levels and learnt valuable lessons on stock investment.
“Covid-19”. Mark talked about a contemporary issue, and once again, he did a wonderful job in researching, preparing and delivering his speech. We all learnt the virus “inside out” after his speech.
At the end of the meeting, our four guests made valuable comments and we sincerely hope they will come back and visit us again!
We all gathered with anticipation for our 7:15pm start. The meeting theme was “Don’t cry over split milk”. There were many stories told on the night where people were able to look at the light side of some challenging situations.
Cherylin conducted the Table Topics Master role. Her questions focused on what you would do to deal with an unfortunate event.
We had 2 great speeches from Chris and William.
William practiced his speech for the upcoming Area 2 International Speech Contest “How much time would you need to live peacefully. He gave an inspirational speech where the character Joyce found out from the doctor her family member had been diagnosed with cancer. William received a round robin evaluation which was facilitated by the Toastmaster Johnny. We wish William all the best in the Contest on Sunday 23rd Feb 2019 at Dundas.
Chris treated us with an ice breaker for the second prepared speech of the evening. He talked about what has happened in his life during the last 2 years since he did his last ice breaker. It’s been an eventful time for Chris getting married, changing careers and really developing as a person.
John Inglis did an education on how mind mapping can help generate ideas and structure for your speeches. We all choose a topic and wrote down the top 3 things we would discuss for the body. John then randomly picked up one out of the pile and did a 2 minute table topic on it. It was a brilliant idea and a nice change to the normal meeting agenda.
We continued our strong start to the year and another fun meeting. Looking forward to seeing everyone at the next meeting on Tues 25th Feb.
We finished the year with a Christmas party. We inducted two new members, Andre and Molly. The third new member was Manisha who will be inducted next year. And a fourth member, Alicia, will be joining us next year. It’s inspiring to see people joining Toastmasters and we will be looking forward to seeing their personal transformation in the new year!
During Table Topics, Ross lived up to his legend as Santa Clause. He also kept retrieving the gift from the bag that was donated by the Table Topics speaker… lucky Ross! Of course, the speaker would ask Ross to choose another gift that’s not their own.
John Inglis, Cherylin Liu and a couple of other members had full Christmas attire.
The Christmas dinner was all-you-can-eat salad, pasta, dumplings, biscuits and other savoury and meaty dishes.
Molly delivered her Icebreaker speech. She told us her story about her life in China, how she came to Sydney, and how she met her husband through Toastmasters.
Andre delivered his Icebreaker speech as well. He talked about his family, career and hobbies, and how they’ve shaped his perspective on life.
Juergen, a verteren Toastmasters member, talked about an event last week that nearly changed his life. Fortunately, his daughter survived the incident with the fallen tree and is expected to fully recover. This was a very touching story and we were reminded how all the little choices we make can have a big impact on our lives.
Tonight’s meeting was packed and we needed extra chairs to accomodate visitors. It’s held every year. We had a prepared speech contest where the winner can eventually compete internationally, and an evaluation contest where we have a guest speaker and all the contestants evaluate that speaker.
In the Evaluation Contest, our guest speaker who was announced on the night, was Gustaf. He delivered an inspiring speech on Generation Greta. He revealed how many big brand grocery products that are packed and sold in Australia are actually made and imported from overseas. And he encouraged us to buy local as opposed to foreign products. He also had a bigger vision. He explained how the younger generation are actually hard working and passionate people, despite many criticisms that they are lazy.
After his speech, the contestants were escorted outside to individually prepare for their evaluations. Then each contestant returned to the stage to deliver an evaluation of Gustaf’s speech.
For the Evaluation Contest, the winners are:
1st: Ross Richard
2nd: Simon West
3rd: Veronica Bowden
For the International Speech, the winners are:
1st: William Leong
2nd: Ross Richard
3rd: Clare Fraga
William shared a touching story about a wife and a husband, and what happened when the wife discovered that she only had three months to live.
Ross’s speech was about The Lazy Brain.
Clare’s message for the audience was to “Be Bold”, and she used the story of a stuttering child to inspire the audience.
Chris’s message was that Truth is Personal, and that common wisdom and statistics can be beaten by the choices we make.
Tonight was “Hat” night. It meant that all meeting roles were randomly drawn out of a hat, with the exception of prepared speeches. We didn’t know who was chairman, or who was the toastmaster hosting the speeches, or who were the evaluators. Some of the new members were thrust into a role they never did before, and it was a good way to try something new without the pressure of being perfect.
We gave a Toast to “Just Do It”. That was just what we needed to hear from Ross Richard.
The Word of the Night was “Bravo”, presented by Johnny Manolelis. The word has origins in the Greek vocabulary as well, and it means “well done”. He encouraged all the members to use the word during the meeting.
The Laughmaster by Ross Richard included an “Irish Lobsters” joke. When Ross gave us the punch line with the constable delivering the great news about the missing wife, we were laughing intensely.
The Table Topics session challenged us with thought-provoking questions about life.
When was the last time you tried something new?
What do you love and what are you doing about it?
What life lesson did you learn the hard way?
Which is worse, failing or never trying?
What gets you most excited about life?
“Collecting Brilliant Ideas” was a facilitated discussion based on research done by Cherilyn Liu for her university.
“A Toastmaster’s Experience” by Johnny Manolelis was another facilitated discussion about how Toastmasters can help you achieve your goals in life.
Tonight, we celebrated the current year and inducted the new executive for 2019-20.
Shirley Childs conducted the induction of the new executive, and asked each club officer to commit to fulfilling their responsibilities to the best of their ability.
2018-19 Year in Review
Christopher Tso was the outgoing President and delivered a speech to review the 2018-19 year. He thanked all the members for creating such a friendly, fun and engaging environment that has continually attracted visitors to come back for more. He also thanked the outgoing executive for their hard work and members who stepped up into the new executive for 2019-20.
2019-20 Club Plan
Clare Fraga was the incoming President and delivered her 2019-20 club plan. It was an uplifting and comprehensive plan. She detailed why we come to Toastmasters – because it’s a place where we can find our voice and grow as a leader and as a person, and also a place where we have fun and make friends. She plans to build on the great work of the existing leadership and maintain our status as a Distinguished Toastmasters Club where members reach their goals and enjoy the supportive and fun culture of the club.
It was not all about business though. We had three speeches delivered by experienced members.
“Prepare for a Job Interview” – Christopher Tso performed a role play where he was a candidate being interviewed by an employer. The exact questions were not known in advance, but the interviewer had a list of questions to choose from to and come up with her own. Christopher answered all the questions without hesitation.
“Wedding Speech” – William Leong also did a role play with the audience where he delivered a speech at his sister-in-law’s wedding. He shared his childhood memories of her sister, and used lots of humour especially on how the husband of his sister-in-law can deal with her loving personality.
“How to become a Distinguished Club” – Johnny Manololis delivered a presentation to educate the members on what is a Distinguished Club and how to become one. It was very timely especially with the new executive now planning for another successful year for our club.
Hello Winter was the meeting theme, as we recently experienced the transition into cold, rainy and windy weather. The Word of the Night was “Reliable”. Perhaps people are less reliable during Winter, just like the weather.
Table Topics provided an opportunity to delve into some insights and attitudes relating to winter:
What could we learn from hibernating bears?
Why is a cold shower the best routine to start a winter morning?
What it’s like to experiencing a real Russian winter?
How do you to tell your romantic interest that you don’t know how to ski?
… and how great are flannelette sheets?!
Race of the Machines, Matt Anderson
Matt provided an insight into a new initiative, in which computer software replaces racing car drivers. However, why should the world care about robots racing each other? Motor sport has been a proving ground for road-car technology and it’s only a matter of time that autonomous vehicles are integrated into our society.
How Far Is It, Ross Richard
Ross explained with visuals about how distance is all relative. He used plenty of examples to illustrate this concept. Travelling to Broken Hill from his home was 208 hours of walking versus 11.5 hours of driving at 100 km/hr. Travelling to the moon by foot would take longer than your lifetime, but driving there would take half a year. The size of the Earth would be smaller than a pea if the Sun was reduced to palm size.
Networking for Better Customer Service, Jagath
Jagath shared his experience of attending a professional networking event. The event was well organised, as attendees with similar interests and industry expertise were grouped into the same table, and each table was asked to speak about a subject. Jagath made good use of the event by introducing himself to others, explaining why he came to the event and what he was looking to get out of the event. This allowed him to build valuable connections.
You Don’t Know Squat, Christopher Tso
Christopher spoke about his journey into improving his physical fitness, and what he learned along the way. Previously his main exercise was running, and last year decided to do strength training instead, which involved whole body exercises with weights, and controlling his diet. He also taught his parents how to squat, starting with using a chair, then adding weights, and eventually removing the chair. The squat is usually a good exercise to start with even for beginners.
New Member Induction
Johnny inducted two new members to a club. Simon West is a new member, and Veronica Bowden is a returning member. Both members are looking to understand why public speaking can be considered an irrational fear and look forward to learning new skills.
Shirley Childs gave a toast to the club officers stepping down and the future club officers for 2019-2020. We were reminded that serving as a club officer was a voluntary unpaid activity, which is why it’s important to recognise and support our club officers.
“Zeal” was the Word of the Night, presented by Clare Fraga.
Johnny Manolelis forced us to think not only on our feet, but to think big, with his impromptu questions.
Tell your secret. How do you get your hands on 3 billion dollars net worth?
You are the CEO of Coca Cola. Explain how you will increase your turnover by 100 percent in the next 2 years?
You own 48 million dollars in new lottery created. You need to spend it in one week. What’s your action plan?
Hospital Waiting Rooms, Vicky Mina
Vicky recounted an amusing story about getting blu-tack stuck in one of her ears, which totally blocked her hearing in that ear. She went to the hospital, believing that it would be a quick fix. T incident went much longer than expected, but it was fixed in the end and Vicky learnt to be more careful with using blu-tack as her ear plugs.
What I learned about my son’s violin, Helena Zhang
Helena explained the benefits of learning a musical instrument, such as improving your concentration and math skills, and reducing anxiety and stress. She used her son’s violin lessons as an example. Initially, her son was interested with violin, but later wanted to give up because of the steep learning curve. But once the initial learning curve is overcome, Helena believes that her son will appreciate the beauty of the musical instrument.
Interview practice run, Jagath Peiris
Jagath delivered an job interview role play, where he was a job candidate and an audience member was the interviewer. The interview questions included “how your experience relates to this position”, “what are your strengths”, and “tell me a difficult situation in your career and how you managed it”.
Will You Marry Me? Christopher Tso
Christopher presented a marriage proposal to his girlfriend. This was also a role play with an audience member, who volunteered to be the girlfriend listening to his proposal. Christopher reminisced how he met Molly, and the conflicts they had to deal with early in the relationship. The conflicts actually made the bond much stronger between them. And they were now at a stage where they both trust, understand and appreciate each other so much that it feels like they’re married already, even though it’s not on paper yet.
Helena Zhang provided our Toast by referring to peace. She was inspired by a recent trip to Japan where she got in touch with some of her family history. Reflecting on what war has cost Japan and the rest of the world, perhaps war is the greatest madness?
The word of the night was presented by Mark Paton – “Indispensable”. He took a humorous approach to referring to certain club members as indispensable.
Clare Fraga introduced us to a naughty pet parrot. The owner of the parrot soon grew tired of the parrot’s behaviour and eventually reached a point of frustration, by throwing the parrot in the freezer! Surprisingly, the parrot was extremely apologetic, promising never to act out of line again. Just to not end up like the frozen chicken.
The Value of Building High Esteem – Johnny Manolelis
“How many of you believe in yourself?” Johnny hypothesised that low self-esteem could be the root to many problems. Using the example of the Golden Buddha which emerged from clay, he provided an informative summary of self esteem. With practical tips, Johhny challenged the room to make improvements to their own self-esteem.
Don’t talk, Just do it! – William Leong
Whilst never knowing how to play music, William has always appreciated. When the opportunity arose, he requested his children to learn instruments. William demonstrated he was a fierce, yet passionate father in his request. But he soon learned that his kids could teach him to follow his own advice as they coerced him into learning the saxophone himself. No excuses allowed.
Social Anxiety – Mel Colgar
Mel reflected an anxiety that many of us have experience before, i.e. navigating the awkward world of professional networking events. For something that can generate so many benefits in our social and professional lives, why do we avoid it? She provided some useful tactics to assist with the challenge, including; having a target, taking the leap, valuing the other person’s insights, and how to contact them later. Mel hopes to provide an update on how she progresses in achieving her professional goals.
Club Executive Elections
We elected the new club executive for 2019/20. The election was a success, and the new executive below will takeover from 1st July 2019.
President – Clare Fraga VP of Education – Vicky Mina VP of Membership – Johnny Manolelis VP of Public Relations – Matthew Anderson Secretary – Christopher Tso Treasurer – Helena Zhang Sergeant at Arms – Mark Paton Immediate Past President – Christopher Tso
Johnny welcomed the Toastmasters and guests to the meeting. He continued with a sincere toast, focussed on Gallipoli, given the upcoming occasion to commemorate the ANZACs. When you imagine what the soldiers experienced, it was clear that there is respect for someone who fights for their country.
Clare provided the Word of the Night as “Commemorate”.
Benjamin challenged the room to consider, “why should we still commemorate ANZAC day, given the significant loss experienced by our Nation?”
Some great points were offered including;
So many people went to war and they fought for our freedoms that we have today.
We should learn from the lessons of the past
The fighting was one of the early challenges faced within our history and thus Australians forged an identity amongst other nations.
It serves as a tribute for those that serve including latter conflicts and common wars.
In one instance the date was unintentionally one member’s wedding anniversary which results in their mixed feelings about the date.
Vicky provided light relief to the meeting, in which she recounted a trip to the hospital over the busy Easter period. When a small particle was trapped in her ear, she was advised to endure time spent in the waiting room. Vicky managed to see the light-side of her embarrassment when she realised the low-severity of issue compared to her fellow patients.
Evaluation Educational Workshop
Shirley provided her expertise on how to deliver a highly effective evaluation of fellow toastmasters. Vital to toastmaster meetings, evaluations help both the speaker and audience to improve their skills.
A few points to consider include;
Organise the evaluation to include a introduction, body and conclusion
Focus on what technique the speaker used, why it was used and how it affects the speech
Categorise observed techniques into the positive or negative effects on the speech.
The last point should highlight the most effective technique that the speaker used to finish on a ‘wow factor’.
A handle acronym to remember techniques is ‘GLOVES’ which stands for; Gesture, Language, Organisation, Vocal variety, Energy and Special.
Don’t Give Up On Your Dreams
Mark Paton gave an inspirational speech about determination in achieving your dreams. He told us a story about two people, John and Scott, who had a very different attitude towards life. The story proved how life is 10 percent of what happens to you, and 90 percent is how you react to it. They both had to deal with a challenge, and ended up with very different results.
John was a victim of a car accident and had to go at least six months of rehabilitation. The doctor said he could no longer continue to work as an electrician and enjoy rugby. John had to pay for his living expenses and so he took on administration work which he hated, but he continued to do. Despite all his challenges, his determination lead him to a full recovery and he returned to his passion as an electrician and rugby player.
Scott was a high achiever at school and university. He was known to be so smart that he hardly studied and was able to achieve high grades. Then midway through his 2nd year, he failed an exam, and decided to quit the university. Instead of dealing with the challenge of increasing his grades, he gave up.
You are Hacked
Benjamin Zhu explained how supercomputers are being used to influence our decisions without our knowledge. He told us about what computers can do right now. A smart microwave knows what time you have your meal, what emotions you’re having while you’re having a meal, and who is having a meal with you. YouTube was able to get his son hooked for 2 hours by recommending one video after another based the algorithms understanding of his son’s viewing behaviour. We now computers connected to special cameras that can measure your stress levels by looking at your eyes.
With all the personal information we give out over time and in real time, supercomputers will know us better than ourselves. If not already, supercomputers will be used to gain the upper-hand in political negotiations and to influence public opinion.
Ben suggested ways that we can protect our brains from being “hacked” by the computer, such as better education.
The Greatest Good
Clare Fraga gave a speech about her time as a protege, and how her mentor helped her through turbulent times.
“What is a mentor? How does it differ from a coach?” A mentor is someone who is someone you trust, is experienced, usually in life, etc. A coach is someone who helps you developing yourself when building a skill, such as a soccer coach, etc. A mentor is a trusted counsellor. The relationship is built on trust.
Clare met her mentor, Anton, when she was moved into a new role in another company as a result of a corporate restructure. Clare had doubts about her ability to perform her new role and preferred her previous role, but her mentor changed her perspective. Anton helped her see opportunities that aligned with her long term goals, and challenged her insecurities by having faith in her potential. She was also touched by Anton’s personal struggles before he had reached his level of success, and they remained friends for many years.
“The greatest good you can do for another is not just to share your riches but to reveal to him his own.” – Benjamin Disraeli
Co-authored by Matthew Anderson and Christopher Tso
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